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Gaining, Obtaining, Attaining and Straining

In 1973, shortly after I discovered that Jesus was actually alive and that my sins were forgiven, I shared my joy and my elation with my immediate family and as many of my relations as I could find. The reaction was mixed – everything from, “Oh, that's nice for you,” to, “Be careful. One should never take these things too far. You don't want to become too religious, too fanatical!”

That raises a question or two. Just how far is too far? And just how far is far enough?

In Philippians 3:8-11, The Apostle Paul asserts that if we are to gain Christ and obtain the righteousness that is from God, we should follow his example and accept the death of our personal dreams and ambitions, the death of everything in our lives that puts us first and God last.

In verse 10, he seeks to impress upon his readers his earnest desire to know Christ and the power of his resurrection. At the time Paul penned this letter, he had been following Jesus for more than two decades, yet he speaks of his yearning to know Christ. After so many years of fruitful ministry, what more did he need to know? What gaps could there possibly be in his knowledge of the Saviour? According to his own testimony, he still had much to learn. And so, dare I say, do we.

He wants to know Christ and the power of His resurrection, suggesting that we should want these same things for ourselves – and why not? Surely, we could all do with more spiritual power in our lives. Then he adds, “and the fellowship of His sufferings, being conformed to His death.” To which the faint-hearted believer might respond, “Aah, no thanks.”

After all, who, in their right mind, would want to suffer like Jesus? But Paul goes on to say that without such conformity, our own resurrection is much less certain “if I may attain...” (v. 11).

Some believers, reading this passage for the first time, might suddenly find that the Christian life, with its promises of love, joy, and peace, is now somewhat less attractive.

“But,” they may say, “Isn't my salvation based on what Christ has done, and not anything I have done?”

Yes, of course. But once we have entered “through the narrow gate” we cannot stay there, waiting for the Second Coming. Paul sets an example that he wants every believer to emulate. He does not rest on his laurels and expect that "whatever will be will be." He does not dig a moat and raise the drawbridge around the castle of his Christian life, satisfied that he has done enough. Rather, he says, “I press on.” The AV and many earlier translations rendered the Greek word dioko as "follow" or "follow after." This does not convey the richness of meaning that Paul has in mind. He is not like the armchair sports-lover who "follows" his favourite team on TV.

We, like Paul must press on, we must strain forward, we must walk the narrow path, we must lay hold of that for which Christ has laid hold of us. We should “press on toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus.” (v 14 ).

At this point, we have a choice. We can either follow Paul's example or rate him as a fanatic or borderline lunatic and decide for ourselves how much of ourselves we are willing to submit to Christ and His cause.

If we do not take the teaching of Paul seriously, how about the words of Jesus himself?

“He who is not with me is against me and he who does not gather with me scatters abroad.” (Matt 12:30).

“If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily.” (Lk 9:23).

Self-denial; daily sacrifice. These are not the actions of someone taking a mild interest in Christianity. Rather, they show a willingness to strain to obtain the prize. They demonstrate a passion, a persistence and a determination to forsake the world and its vanity, to gain that which is eternal and can never be taken away.

 

Plugged In

“Follow your passion” is advice which I have given over the years to countless young
people. For example, in practical terms, this might best be understood by teenagers
who are considering which career or job to take. Choose work whereby you don’t need
parental support to get you up in the morning. Rather, you spring out of bed, fuelled
entirely by self-motivation, never late to work because a certain passion accompanies
you. 

We are all made different and are all made with a purpose in mind. When we ‘plug-in’,
the lights come on. Have you heard the term ‘born for this’ or ‘you are a natural’?
Unbridled enthusiasm and enjoyment for a job or vocation often is an affirming guide
and encouragement for any person, young or older. The lesson to learn is to ‘plug into
your passion’.
So, what is your passion? Are you truly plugged in? One sure sign that the plug is
actually detached and the switch is in the off position is a lack of real passion for
anything. You need others to ‘get you out of bed’ so to speak.
Of all the people on earth, it might be expected that we, the believers and followers of
Jesus, would be a people of passion, brave, adventurous, and of good energy. In the

economy of God, we know and have our being, every day is new, full of hopeful
possibilities and good probabilities. God’s promises and wisdom can come to light in
any and every moment of our lives… if indeed, we wake up as one who is ‘plugged in’.


Proverbs 25:2 “It is the glory of God to conceal things, but the glory of kings (me and you) is
to search things out."


We sing and pray all the time that our God is a great God. One of the truly great things
about God is that he knows what we don’t. He conceals things for His good purposes
and in so doing displays his glory, thus says King Solomon in his God-given wisdom. The
glory of God is that He knows concealed things; the glory of man is in the searching out
of these things.

In our relationship with God, as we seek His word and his presence, we “plug-in”. I can’t
think of anything more wonderful and exciting than hearing, learning or seeing clearly
God’s previously concealed things. You don’t need a preacher, favourite song or book
to search out God and His hidden things, you just need a passion that is self-motivated.
When a young man or woman finds a genuine passion and their own self-motivation
becomes the driver who can know how far it will take them? So too, just how far will
God take you and I when we truly search out God’s concealed things?
We need to understand one further thing. We must be willing to unplug in order to
plug-in.


Romans 12:2 "Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the
renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is – His
good, pleasing and perfect will."


God’s will for your life, once hidden, will unfold and be revealed… the outcome for
anyone who searches God’s hidden things.

Let Go... and Make Room

New Years is usually a time when we think about resolutions, new goals, new things coming just around the corner. What can we add to our lives to make it better. But sometimes, perhaps it’s not only a question of what new things or habits we can acquire, but also… what things and habits we should get rid of.

 

The new year brings about some changes for me personally. I am moving into a season of full-time teaching at my school. Being a ‘part-time’ teacher for many years, meant that I filled up the rest of my time with all sorts of other responsibilities. The obvious one being my other part-time job of church admin. But also, I did additional school admin support, librarian duties, and school and marketing tasks. Increasing my teaching responsibilities naturally means that some other things will have to move over, or go completely to make room in my schedule. This is not going to be easy for me. I enjoy doing all these things and they have been a big part of my ‘work’ life over the last three or so years. But letting these things go is a necessity for me at this time. I have to let go to make room.

 

In our spiritual lives, we sometimes have to let go of things to make room for God to do His work. Get rid of things from our heart to allow God space to work a new thing.

 

One of these could be bitterness. I think most of us will say immediately, “Oh yes, bitterness – get it out! Absolutely! We don’t need it. It’s damaging…” But how many of us are actually able to do it as easily as it is said? Whether we agree with it or not, it's easy to hold onto bitterness. We carry it around and cling to it like a mobile phone. Perhaps we even sometimes use it as a weapon of manipulation and control – or at least think about doing that. But the ironic thing is, it controls us instead, never leading to anything life-giving for us or the person we hold resentment towards.

Another dies in bitterness of soul, never having enjoyed anything good. Job 21:25.

I wish it was an easy thing, to just get rid of bitterness. But it comes from situations we usually feel completely justified about. Someone hurt us, they were wrong, we were right and so why shouldn’t I feel resentment? We hold it up like some trophy, proving we were right and hard-done-by. And from this, bitterness grows and flourishes. So it’s perhaps not the bitterness we need to snip off, but the pride. Pride is the root and by pulling out the root, perhaps bitterness will come with it.

 

Another thing we might need to let go of is fear. Fear is something else that is easy to agree to toss. Especially since we can sometimes be deceived into thinking we don’t have any fear. We’re redeemed, we’re forgiven and we live under God’s love… But there might be things that you know are right or that God is calling you to – that you are holding back from. What do you think is holding you back? It’s usually fear. Satan convinced Eve to fear missing out on something. That God wasn’t the Friend she thought He was. What is your fear? Reflect deeply and search within to answer that one. Work out what the fear is exactly… and then you’ll be able deal with it with God’s help.

 

Selfishness is another thing that creeps in and takes up a lot of space without us knowing. On surface level it’s, once again, easy to say we are not selfish. And I don’t believe I’m in a church full of ‘selfish people’. But, like fear and bitterness, we have to learn to recognise it and name it in order to deal with it. The bible tells us we must die to our selfish desires. In our everyday lives it might just look like:

  • getting grouchy when our young children wake us up too early or interrupt the ‘important’ things we’re doing
  • huffing when our spouse is twenty minutes late getting home
  • mumbling choice words when the slowpoke in front of us stops really early at a yellow light
  • being passive-aggressive when we feel unheard… etc.

All of it comes naturally to us. But none of it is helpful for anyone, least of all, ourselves. Next time something doesn’t go your way, truly note how you respond. Identify what most easily produces anger and frustration in your heart. Once you recognise where your selfishness runs most deeply, you can create healthier habits of reciting scripture, whispering simple prayers, and taking a few moments to pause and refocus.

 

There are many more things we could look at getting rid of. But one more to mention here is unrealistic expectations. Will some of these things I’ve discussed above creep back in sometime in the new year? Of course they will! So surrender the notion that you’ll be able to perfectly let go of them. You are both saved and sinful, and this contradiction won’t end until Christ makes all things new in the next life. But we can certainly be aware and watchful of them. It’s not like we only have one day of the year (1st January) to do a huge clean-up and toss-out and the next big clean will have to wait until this time next year. We can be renewed daily. We can be renewed moment by moment. The very second we recognise a struggle within us, we can whisper one of those simple prayers, pause to shift our focus, or recite a helpful scripture. Make space for the Lord to do His work, unfurl your fists that are so tightly clutching onto things you shouldn’t be. Ask the Lord for help.

"The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; His mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning; great is Your faithfulness.” 

Lamentations 3:22-23

It Will Be Good

My kids are giddy with excitement when it comes to Christmas. It’s such a special time of year for them. The story of Jesus, Christmas trees, decorations and the anticipation of presents can almost be too much for them.

We will frequently go to our local Big W or Target and the girls will walk the aisles picking, choosing, or requesting what they might like for Christmas.

I have often wondered, why younger kids seem to enjoy Christmas so much and that sense of ‘awe and wonder’ seems to fade as they get older. I think it is because even though they don’t know what they are going to get, they know it’s going to be good. That knowledge allows them to eagerly anticipate what is coming.

I think God wants us to have a child-like faith like this when it comes to life.

One of the most impactful verses in my life has been Romans 8:28 which says:

“And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.

You can find that particular verse plastered all over things. Yet it holds a significant truth that can change the way we view life.

God is working everything out for our good.

Not just the good times when everything is going according to plan. But the bad times, when everything is a mess. The times where we are heart broken and disappointed and frustrated and wishing that things could just be different. Even in those times, God is working everything for good.

I once heard a preacher state it like this: “If it’s not good, it’s not over.”

If I can capture that truth in my heart, it changes the way I see the world. I can eagerly anticipate the future, not because I know, understand or have control over what it will be. But because I know that no matter what the future may hold, because of Jesus and His love for me, it will be good.

Bear with Each Other

Colossians 3:12-14

12 Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. 13 Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. 14 And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.

 

I was running late for school the other day, driving down Wattle Street towards Unley. You might know that Wattle Street is 50kph. But I was going 40kph. And that’s because the person in front of me was driving at 40kph. If there’s one thing that annoys me on the road… it’s people tailgating me. BUT… I find it very hard not to tailgate myself when the person in front of me is not observing the liberalities of the speed limit. We came to some roadworks, where the speed limit changed to 40kph. So the person in front of me is going the right speed now right? Nope! They slowed down to 30kph.

“Um… you were already going 40! No need to slow down! You were fine!”

 

Soon, we come up to the Duthy Street traffic lights. The lights had been green a little while back, but as we approached, they turned red and I felt very confident that had I been able to go 50kph this whole time (even with the roadwork stretch) I would have made it through those lights. And I said it. I announced to myself in the hearing of Beth and Emily, sitting in the back seat, “I would have made those lights if it wasn’t for this person in front of me!”

 

At the intersection, the road splits into two lanes — both go straight, but the left can also turn left and the right can also turn right. The car ahead takes the left lane. There’s no one else at the lights, so I go in the free lane on the right. Naturally, I glance over at the driver beside me — because apparently, we all need to get a good look at the face of the person who’s been annoying us.

 

Now stationery, I reflect that my little grumble was probably not a great example for my girls. I lift my left hand up a little, palm out towards the car next to me and say, “I love you with Jesus’ love,” and then say no more about it.

 

Now that we had been at the lights, the road was clear in front of me. The slow person was going to turn left (I had seen their indicator earlier) and I had nothing in front of…

No. Just milliseconds before my light goes green, a last second right-turner from Duthy street comes and turns onto Wattle. My light goes green. This new car is now right in front of me. And slow.

 

…On their back window is a sticker that simply says, “Jesus” in a little fish symbol.

I purse my lips, blink my eyes and chuckle to myself. I felt the Lord say, “Good job eventually having the right attitude with the last one. Here’s another one to practise.” Or perhaps even, “This is Me. Jesus. I’m this person. I’m the last person too. Just love.”

 

Love covers everything. Every situation. Every person. Every circumstance, thought, attitude and action. In the bible, God calls us to be compassionate, kind, humble, gentle, patient and forgiving. This is all too hard sometimes. But one thing that helps us do all of them all at once, is love. If you love a person, (the action, not the emotion), you will have a heart for them, you will be thinking of them, considering them, bearing with them, trying to understand them, showing empathy towards them.

 

I love how teaching as a profession keeps you in check. Or at least gives you a jolt from time to time. I am teaching Colossians 3:12-14 with my Year 3/4 Class at the moment as we practise our handwriting. We focus on a different ‘clothing’ item each week and write and learn scriptures about that particular thing.

This very same week as my ‘Jesus-bumper-sticker-encounter’ was the very same week we talked about ‘grumbling’ and ‘being patient’ at Talking Tuesdays (James 5:7-12), and also the very same week we arrived at ‘Forbearance’ in our handwriting series. Bearing with each other. We talked in the classroom about how that can be bearing with, as in (quite frankly) ‘putting up’ with and being patient with, and it can also mean carrying each other’s burdens.

 

I would like to add that at the time of typing this into my newsletter template (Friday), I wanted to check that I had written out the scripture at the top correctly, so I visited biblegateway.com. And you’ll never believe what the ‘verse of the day’ was:

Galatians 6:2

Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.

 

This was one of the verses I included in my class’s handwriting task this week. If you don’t believe me, here is a screenshot:

 

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Forbearance is one of the ‘items’ we are to ‘clothe ourselves’ in. And over all these virtues, put on ‘love’ – as though it’s a big, beautiful overcoat to finish off the perfect ensemble! And then the trickiest bit (or should it be easy?) is to go about your day accordingly.